Why is life hard sometimes?
That is what that Daughter Of Mine called and asked me tonight. The answer is always the same. Because we lean on our own understanding. I told her to assume that nothing in life will really ever makes sense. We just make sense of it. I also told her that If you give your worries away every day you can have new ones. That way you won’t get tired of the same old issues. You will have brand new ones at the start of every morning. That’s what I do. I will not allow myself 24 hours to obsess over something that is not in my control. I blink my eyes extremely hard, and I remember a time when something awful happened, and then I think about where I am now. “This too shall pass.” It’s an old saying that most of us have heard all of our lives.
The irony in that statement rings volumes when bad days come knocking. My Motherly advice ended with this;
Don’t you ever let anyone or anything own your happy or your peace. Men and Woman are built to fail each other. Life doesn’t need to be fair. You do! So, don’t count on the goodness of anyone. Be cute when you’re sad. That way, no one will know what’s happening on the inside. “This too shall pass!” Then, I told her that I loved her and fuck them. Anyone that doesn’t value you, Should be absent of your energy. See you tomorrow darling! cry yourself to sleep, but don’t forget to study. I need my grades. LMAO. Tyrone...she just needs her hair done. LOl. Call me. ❤️ Tyrone White